Mr perfect romantically proposes, you say yes! You gleefully tell family and friends, you proudly set the date, life is perfection… and then comes the wedding planning, the juggling of your money and time, having to plough through endless to do lists, rising above interfering friends and family and resisting the will to just ‘give up’ when your caterer casually cancels two weeks before the date.

Incredibly you got through it, you kept your sanity and the day is set to run as smoothly as clockwork! But wait, what’s that? – The niggling feeling that certainly something will go wrong, disaster will strike! Never fear, we are here to set your mind at ease, here are a few answers to the most common concerns experienced by a bride to be.

I think that we can all agree that the biggest issue if it were to happen is ‘no- show’ of your groom.
Your beloved, of course he will show! – Relax, he did ask you after all, and he hasn’t ran for the hills during the whole stress of planning the day, even when maybe once or twice bridezilla surfaced. He’s in for the long haul and cannot wait to make you his better half!

*It’s definitely recommend that you make it clear to the ‘best mate’ to not whisk the stags off too ‘pre-wedding’ at least a week before is safe, a hung-over groom, a groom in a jail cell or a groom in another country would not be wedding bliss!

Your bridesmaids – your best friends, they are your support team, they are your rocks and you can count on them to take on any problems on your behalf, use them, keep them focused (and never more drunk than yourself).

* A recovery kit is a great idea to combat any little problems regarding unplanned predicaments, leave it in the hands of your most trusted bridesmaid (the most sensible out of the group, not the one most likely to have snook off with the best man) small enough to be kept in her bag, consisting of useful bits like nail varnish to combat chipped nails and ladders in stockings! Hairspray to keep your locks looking glamorous, a mini sewing kit to fix snags or tears, baby wipes to remove any marks and stains, makeup for beauty touch ups and perfume to keep you smelling wonderful.

Good company – Surround yourself with it, enjoy the ride, benefit all of the details that you put into place during your planning. Laugh, catch up with relatives, enjoy being a newly wed, laugh at the speeches, enjoy the food, drink your champagne, dance at your disco and enjoy the simple fact that all of your hard work has paid off, each and every one of your guests have come to celebrate the union of you and your new husband.

Now what?-

After all the time and effort that was ploughed into the big day its all over, its time for the debrief. Now what will you do with all of your time? Your life of marital bliss has begun, you can focus on your new life as a Mrs, and if that’s not enough, you can busy yourself with present opening, thank you cards , honeymooning, name change forms, wedding albums…

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